While I like to have fun with health, I take health topics very seriously. By seriously, I mean that I use research-based medical science to answer questions and as the foundation of the blogs I write. And, when someone asks me a question, I believe that a timely and factual response is what is required - nothing laughable about that, for sure.
Lately, I have been getting emails with links to all kinds of serious articles from sites where lots of women and teen girls get info. The article topics range from cardiac to incontinence, from menopause to sexual dysfunction and cancers of all kinds. For teens, there are articles on periods, puberty and weight. While immensely helpful, there is no humor there for me, for sure!
Based on current events, right now, I feel a need to lighten it up a bit, for myself as well as for others. There is only good to come from a good belly laugh. To do that, I’ve decided to play the health version of fun with phonics. Well, sort of, since I’ve never found phonics that humorous. Enough with that, here we go, my version of FUN WITH HEALTH!
“A merry heart doeth good like a medicine, but a broken spirit dries the bones.” ~Proverbs 17:22
1) Dancing: Dancing with the Stars. Yep, every season we see larger women loose weight while moving, shaking, sliding and kicking to some of the best music with some majorly buff dancing professionals. It is hard work, but the result is a slimmer body and doing something that most have never done. Not only do they tone, but also they usually express the satisfaction of having accomplished something difficult and challenging. There are many ways to enjoy dancing and music movement even if you are not on Dancing with the Stars. The latest craze of Zumba seems to be everywhere. Just Google it and you can find classes in just about any city. Zumba offers music and movement, then toning and weight loss. Can’t beat that!
2) Finding Humor in a Frustrating Situation: Best quote I have heard lately was when Paula Deen was entertaining Oprah and Gayle (note my use of first names, as I feel like I know them both) at her lake home. They each hitched themselves into a bungee jumping machine and had a blast. Paula mentioned that she wet herself from the jumping. Then she said something like this to Oprah: My definition of multitasking is farting and then peeing at the same time. (I think that is close to what she said.) I laughed because, I can identify with that. In fact, Oprah, Paula and I laughed so hard that I think Paula wasn’t going to be the only wet one!
3) Fun with Fitness and Friends: Getting active with friends is always a joy, especially when it involves moving and talking and then celebrating the event. For example, there is golf, tennis, soccer, softball, swimming and skiing, which bring everyone outside and together. Love that. My personal favorites are: swimming and walking on the beach with family or friends.
4) The “Joy of Cooking”: Why is this fun? Because, I love to try new recipes and enjoy the preparation process. Also, I am a believer that eating well is a very important aspect of our lives. By well I mean eating nutritionally sound foods, like fruits and vegetables, low fat protein choices like poultry or lean meats, and grains that include barley, buckwheat and couscous. Then, find a great recipe (check out HomeRearedChef’s blog for some unique suggestions) and create using well-selected seasonings. Lastly, turn the ingredients into succulent meals that can be shared with friends and family or enjoyed just by your self.
5) Growing Your Own: This part is dedicated to SunBonnetSmart and to my husband. Both like to have gardens that bring healthy, homegrown bounty into the house. This not only takes knowledge, but energy and movement. You have to till the land, water and cultivate. Outside gardens require weeding and ongoing maintenance. Also, there is joy to be had from the beautiful flowers and bushes that enhance any yard space. There must be fitness when sweating, bending and lifting (all using good body mechanics) happen.
What is fun for you with fitness?? Any laughs or joy lately when it comes to health??
Wednesday, March 28, 2012
Tuesday, March 20, 2012
Creativity, Art, Poetry and Good Health
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“Like the expressive arts therapies, the arts in healthcare movement recognizes the arts, creativity, and imagination as agents of wellness and their consistent and central presence throughout history as healing practices.” Patients who are involved with the arts require less pain medications, better compliance with treatments, and even, stay in the hospital fewer days. Along with that, art in the hospital environment improves the appearance and decrease the stress levels of both the patients and the caregivers.
After reading the Psychology Today article, I Googled creativity and healthcare and came across a myriad of articles from online health focused sites, as well as publications and books for healthcare professionals touting the benefits to health of creative activities. We know that children get a boost to self-esteem when their teacher and parents compliment their art. For adults it is the same. Another aspect of creativity, for some, is the social benefit of sharing what they have produced.
Love when I get to experience my blogging friends’ creative beings. Along with the discipline of creating interesting reads, they share compelling stories about their daily lives, their history and what they have created. I have used my imagination and sat in fragrant and lovely gardens that my friends have grown. Others have shared day and night photos of a fresh new snowfall. That, with their words, has driven me to hot tea and a warm sweater, despite the lack of freezing temperatures in my home city. Another aspect of creativity that really impacts me positively, are the beautiful photos of the culinary creations that HomeRearedChef and others post. I also like travel stories, home stories, narrative prose, student/teacher experiences, the angst of daily exercising laments and humorous reading about the challenge of working from home when you have children diverting your attention, while still fitting in roller derby queen preparations. There is no doubt that after reading most posts, I am more relaxed and connected, all impacting me in a healthy way.
Now my turn to share: I have a friend, Barbara Brenton, whose art I absolutely love. She describes herself this way: I am an experimental painter and like to incorporate both traditional and non-traditional materials into my work. Ideas for my art come from visual experiences from the external world around me. I then take those ideas and experiment with abstraction and all forms of media, materials, and color combinations to create a work of art that becomes my own. When I look at her art, my mind gets swept up into the colors, the composition and the unique aspects of how she uses the familiar to create the abstract.
Last year, Barbara asked me to create a poem describing her art, as part of an exhibit highlighting her works. I did. Last week, I did the same thing for an exhibit that took place in Bonita Springs, Florida. Would you believe that there is a name for that called: ekphrasis. Yep, that is my newest art form. Below is one of the paintings that Barbara created for last week’s exhibit and my poem that accompanied it. Note that the overall theme was "monochromatic collage".
ONE RED SQUARE AMONGST THE WHITE
One lone dissenter
Standing amongst the throngs.
Waiting for something to happen
Lots of rights, yet many wrongs.
Doesn’t have to be political
Nor self-righteous indignation
But quietly making the point
Without gross exaggeration.
Red Square stands there as my hero.
While all others look so white
Not many do what square has done.
The red sun in the light.
What else do I think about
when looking at this creation?
My mind goes in many ways.
From structure to elation.
It makes me think of bravery.
Then takes me to a wild flower
Its red beauty stands out bright and bold.
In the midst of a lively white shower.
When I focus on the white design
The red isn’t as pronounced.
Its almost as if it stands apart
As a guest whose not yet announced.
Again I take another look.
And see some puzzle parts
Not together but placed quite close
It reminds me of dancing hearts.
There is gauze and cloth and mesh and board.
And indistinguishable additions.
Is it a pirate’s map to a treasure chest
That leads to some search expeditions.
All in all, I love to look,
As Red Square is so engaging.
It takes me away, then brings me back.
And leaves me staring at its white staging.
Honored I was asked to write this poem.
To express what I think when I stare.
To gaze at fine art and study it hard.
I thank you for the chance to share.
I am not saying that the poem was the greatest poetry ever (I still like Edgar Allen Poe far better), but I had fun studying the art and letting my mind be engulfed by it. Also, at the end of the reading, I invited other attendees to share their interpretation and a lively discussion followed. It turned into something far more than I expected and was totally enjoyable. The other participants treated me, as if I was their own personal poet laureate, which made me feel like I was one with the creatives there, but in a humble kind of way
Stress Incontinence and the Public Tinkling Incident
Just read that Marie and her brother, Donnie, were laughing so had on stage in Vegas that she peed her pants in front of the audience. From what I understand from media coverage about this, is that she wiped up the puddle, laughed more and went on with the performance. How many of us would be able to do this in our real everyday, non-showbiz, lives?? That is, when you are having a rip-roaring laugh in a public place and all of a sudden you feel a tinkle coming on, can’t stop it and it just flows, flows, and flows some more then you manage the wetness and move on. Would you laugh about it, cry about it, clean it up or what??
One aspect of this, other than admiring Marie for not running off the stage embarrassed, is that she could have avoided the public tinkling by wearing some kind of pad protection. While I have no idea why she has stress incontinence or whether she is being medically treated, I do know, pretty assuredly that it is stress incontinence since she was laughing hard when it happened. Also, bet it wasn’t her first time with stress incontinence. Though, it may have been her first time on stage for the world to experience it with her.
In March, 2011, I posted a blog titled, “I laughed until I Peed My Pants; Info about Stress Incontinence”. In the post, I offered the definition of stress incontinence provided by The American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, and that is:
“In this type, a woman leaks urine when she coughs, laughs, or sneezes. Leaks also can happen when a woman walks, runs, or exercises. A weakening of the tissues that support the bladder or the muscles of the urethra causes it. Stress incontinence is the most common type in younger women.”
http://www.blogher.com/i-laughed-until-i-peed-my-pants-info-about-stress-incontinence
Rather than repeat the information in the post, I am linking to it today, as it seems like a good time to revisit the information while writing further about this because Marie’s story is more than just a medical one. It is about self-esteem, composure and how to avoid an accident. There are tons of articles on women focused sites and on medical sites too about stress incontinence. There are medications to help, weight to loose, exercises to do, surgeries to consider and behaviors to modify. All in all, the most sensible way to manage the problem is multifaceted and personalized to the individual.
Marie, in many ways you are my hero on the topic. It happened, you addressed it and you moved back to the show. That is what I hope for every woman who deals with stress incontinence. But, along with that, is I hope you see your health care professional to better understand what is causing your stress incontinence and get a plan of care that works for you. In the meantime, I wish you many hearty laughs and the confidence and protection to not worry about it.
One aspect of this, other than admiring Marie for not running off the stage embarrassed, is that she could have avoided the public tinkling by wearing some kind of pad protection. While I have no idea why she has stress incontinence or whether she is being medically treated, I do know, pretty assuredly that it is stress incontinence since she was laughing hard when it happened. Also, bet it wasn’t her first time with stress incontinence. Though, it may have been her first time on stage for the world to experience it with her.
In March, 2011, I posted a blog titled, “I laughed until I Peed My Pants; Info about Stress Incontinence”. In the post, I offered the definition of stress incontinence provided by The American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, and that is:
“In this type, a woman leaks urine when she coughs, laughs, or sneezes. Leaks also can happen when a woman walks, runs, or exercises. A weakening of the tissues that support the bladder or the muscles of the urethra causes it. Stress incontinence is the most common type in younger women.”
http://www.blogher.com/i-laughed-until-i-peed-my-pants-info-about-stress-incontinence
Rather than repeat the information in the post, I am linking to it today, as it seems like a good time to revisit the information while writing further about this because Marie’s story is more than just a medical one. It is about self-esteem, composure and how to avoid an accident. There are tons of articles on women focused sites and on medical sites too about stress incontinence. There are medications to help, weight to loose, exercises to do, surgeries to consider and behaviors to modify. All in all, the most sensible way to manage the problem is multifaceted and personalized to the individual.
Marie, in many ways you are my hero on the topic. It happened, you addressed it and you moved back to the show. That is what I hope for every woman who deals with stress incontinence. But, along with that, is I hope you see your health care professional to better understand what is causing your stress incontinence and get a plan of care that works for you. In the meantime, I wish you many hearty laughs and the confidence and protection to not worry about it.
How to Avoid A Text Gone BAD!
Had a rough experience a few weeks ago about a text I wrote that was sent on to someone else though, I hadn’t intended that to happen. Within the text, I was being a bit critical of someone’s husband, who deserved it, due to some disruptive behavior he exhibited at a meeting I had attended. While I really wasn’t disrespectful, I did point out that it was too dramatic for the situation and I was hopeful that we could avoid that kind of thing in the future. Now, in looking back, it was true and was actually a bit nicer than it could have been. But the point is, the text went further than I would have preferred. Before you tell me to GROW UP, I know that I need to be careful with online communications and I usually am quite sensitive about what I put in writing. The message here is that despite the best of intentions, we really do need to abide by some self-saving guidelines when texting. Texting shouldn’t be a free-for-all dumping ground of every emotion that one feels at the moment and then expresses. NO. Because, even the most texperienced (my word) of us can get caught up in the moment and then regret what we texted.
While I am not a teen, many times I use the beinggirl.com website to make a point and to provide information about a topic. This time, I found an article, titled, “The Rules For Texting” that offers some aspects of texting watch-outs for even the most seasoned of us girls.
Below are a few of my favorites, as I like the way the rules are being articulated, along with the fact that it is sound information. There is a link at the bottom to the complete article.
• Nobody's grammar and spelling are perfect, but really bad grammar and sloppy spelling are like bad breath...it doesn't bother you but it bothers everyone else. (Despite my best efforts, sometimes my notes are really skink breath due to the errors. At times, I am shocked when I reread my text because of changes made by the auto-features that I didn’t notice. OY!)
• Keep it light. Texting is informal and fun. Keep your messages short and sweet. According to Verizon, anything over 160 characters should be an email. Bad news, invitations, and serious conversations should be reserved for face-to-face talks or actual phone conversations. (One thing I do, but will try to stop, is sometimes I send 3 texts consecutively, because I have superseded the number of characters. Oh well, another alteration to my texting self.)
• NEVER text and drive. Talking on the phone is bad enough. You won't know what hit you...or what you hit...if you're pounding out a message on your keyboard. (NO KIDDING!!)
http://www.beinggirl.com/article/rules-for-texting/?utm_source=blogger&utm_medium=nurseelaine&utm_content=link20120319&utm_campaign=comm_mgr
I am a real fan of using texts to communicate quickly and conveniently and for receiving rapid feedback. However, I really should curb this when doing any non-fun or business related communications. For photos and for immediate notifications, great, but for other things, perhaps an email might be best.
Would love to hear other stories of a text gone badly, as it would be reassuring to know that I am not the only renegade and now, reformed, texter. By the way, about the text regret I talked about, no one brought it up to me, even the guys wife!
While I am not a teen, many times I use the beinggirl.com website to make a point and to provide information about a topic. This time, I found an article, titled, “The Rules For Texting” that offers some aspects of texting watch-outs for even the most seasoned of us girls.
Below are a few of my favorites, as I like the way the rules are being articulated, along with the fact that it is sound information. There is a link at the bottom to the complete article.
• Nobody's grammar and spelling are perfect, but really bad grammar and sloppy spelling are like bad breath...it doesn't bother you but it bothers everyone else. (Despite my best efforts, sometimes my notes are really skink breath due to the errors. At times, I am shocked when I reread my text because of changes made by the auto-features that I didn’t notice. OY!)
• Keep it light. Texting is informal and fun. Keep your messages short and sweet. According to Verizon, anything over 160 characters should be an email. Bad news, invitations, and serious conversations should be reserved for face-to-face talks or actual phone conversations. (One thing I do, but will try to stop, is sometimes I send 3 texts consecutively, because I have superseded the number of characters. Oh well, another alteration to my texting self.)
• NEVER text and drive. Talking on the phone is bad enough. You won't know what hit you...or what you hit...if you're pounding out a message on your keyboard. (NO KIDDING!!)
http://www.beinggirl.com/article/rules-for-texting/?utm_source=blogger&utm_medium=nurseelaine&utm_content=link20120319&utm_campaign=comm_mgr
I am a real fan of using texts to communicate quickly and conveniently and for receiving rapid feedback. However, I really should curb this when doing any non-fun or business related communications. For photos and for immediate notifications, great, but for other things, perhaps an email might be best.
Would love to hear other stories of a text gone badly, as it would be reassuring to know that I am not the only renegade and now, reformed, texter. By the way, about the text regret I talked about, no one brought it up to me, even the guys wife!
Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Beachin’ Good Time No Matter the Size of the Bod
Let me start this post with a caveat and that is, higher body weights, or weight beyond someone’s recommended BMI (Body Mass Index), is not a healthy state of being. And, your next thought (and mine, if someone else had said this) is: YES (stated loud and sarcastically), we all know that.
According to the National Institute of Health:
“BMI is a useful measure of overweight and obesity. It is calculated from your height and weight. BMI is an estimate of body fat and a good gauge of your risk for diseases that can occur with more body fat. The higher your BMI, the higher your risk for certain diseases such as heart disease, high blood pressure, type 2 diabetes, gallstones, breathing problems, and certain cancers.” To learn more and to calculate your BMI: http://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/health/public/heart/obesity/lose_wt/risk.htm
My BMI denotes that I am overweight. DUHHHH!! I can look in the mirror naked and know that, though I don’t think I’ve done a total body look-see in decades. In fact, my dermatologist has seen more of my body during my annual exam, than I ever do. I do know, though, that my clothes size has increased and my knees are chubby, as those aspects of my being are visible on a daily basis so my BMI is not surprise.
Let me jump to the point I want to make and that is, I admire large women who ignore the fact that they are and wear thongs or bikinis to prance around the beach. They seemingly enjoy the beauty of their surroundings, the people they are with and the moment of joy without ever saying, I hate my body, I need to diet and no more Mojitos, as they are fattening.
As I write this, we are on a beach vacation, if you haven’t guessed, and I am not dancing or prancing on the beach. Most of the time, I wear a beach cover-up and only remove it for those moments of surf dashing. If someone takes the time to chat with me when I am lounging on my chair reading, the discussion usually isn’t about the book I am into, it moves towards my fatness and how I must go on a diet. BORING!! That is why I wish, at least while I am in a state of undress at the beach, I could leave that “I am a big-girl and regret it" baggage at home. Everyone, including me, would be a whole lot happier.
How to do that?
As I was thinking about how to guide others to not feel as self-conscious, as I do, about wearing a bathing suit in public, I was a bit stymied. If I can’t push myself in that direction, how can I help others feel better about their beings. And then fortunately, I found an article on beinggirl.com that provided excellent guidance. The article, titled: What To Know Before You Go: It's Bathing Suit Season, provides 10 excellent tips to help you think differently about yourself in a bathing suit. For example, the third point is: If you keep talking about that particular body part that bothers you (in my case, my thighs and tush), that's what everybody ends up looking at. Those parts you consider flaws are really what make you unique. And being unique is beautiful.
To end my post with the last tip in the article, (and I couldn’t say it better myself): Always walk tall, pay attention to your posture, and wear a smile. Drink lots of water and apply plenty of sunscreen. A happy positive facial expression radiates inner beauty, and that always outshines everything else, especially during bathing suit season!
So, I will finish writing and go out happily (or more so than before) to the beach. Actually, my husband is happy that I am done with my post. And, to his credit, doesn’t care what I look like in my suit, as long as I am now ready to go outside with him. I won't exactly be prancing in my half-naked suit wearing way, but I am feeling better and will loose the cover-up faster.
http://www.beinggirl.com/article/bathing-suit-season/
According to the National Institute of Health:
“BMI is a useful measure of overweight and obesity. It is calculated from your height and weight. BMI is an estimate of body fat and a good gauge of your risk for diseases that can occur with more body fat. The higher your BMI, the higher your risk for certain diseases such as heart disease, high blood pressure, type 2 diabetes, gallstones, breathing problems, and certain cancers.” To learn more and to calculate your BMI: http://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/health/public/heart/obesity/lose_wt/risk.htm
My BMI denotes that I am overweight. DUHHHH!! I can look in the mirror naked and know that, though I don’t think I’ve done a total body look-see in decades. In fact, my dermatologist has seen more of my body during my annual exam, than I ever do. I do know, though, that my clothes size has increased and my knees are chubby, as those aspects of my being are visible on a daily basis so my BMI is not surprise.
Let me jump to the point I want to make and that is, I admire large women who ignore the fact that they are and wear thongs or bikinis to prance around the beach. They seemingly enjoy the beauty of their surroundings, the people they are with and the moment of joy without ever saying, I hate my body, I need to diet and no more Mojitos, as they are fattening.
As I write this, we are on a beach vacation, if you haven’t guessed, and I am not dancing or prancing on the beach. Most of the time, I wear a beach cover-up and only remove it for those moments of surf dashing. If someone takes the time to chat with me when I am lounging on my chair reading, the discussion usually isn’t about the book I am into, it moves towards my fatness and how I must go on a diet. BORING!! That is why I wish, at least while I am in a state of undress at the beach, I could leave that “I am a big-girl and regret it" baggage at home. Everyone, including me, would be a whole lot happier.
How to do that?
As I was thinking about how to guide others to not feel as self-conscious, as I do, about wearing a bathing suit in public, I was a bit stymied. If I can’t push myself in that direction, how can I help others feel better about their beings. And then fortunately, I found an article on beinggirl.com that provided excellent guidance. The article, titled: What To Know Before You Go: It's Bathing Suit Season, provides 10 excellent tips to help you think differently about yourself in a bathing suit. For example, the third point is: If you keep talking about that particular body part that bothers you (in my case, my thighs and tush), that's what everybody ends up looking at. Those parts you consider flaws are really what make you unique. And being unique is beautiful.
To end my post with the last tip in the article, (and I couldn’t say it better myself): Always walk tall, pay attention to your posture, and wear a smile. Drink lots of water and apply plenty of sunscreen. A happy positive facial expression radiates inner beauty, and that always outshines everything else, especially during bathing suit season!
So, I will finish writing and go out happily (or more so than before) to the beach. Actually, my husband is happy that I am done with my post. And, to his credit, doesn’t care what I look like in my suit, as long as I am now ready to go outside with him. I won't exactly be prancing in my half-naked suit wearing way, but I am feeling better and will loose the cover-up faster.
http://www.beinggirl.com/article/bathing-suit-season/
Thursday, January 26, 2012
Laughter Is My Best Friend!
This blog is dedicated to all of my BlogHer friends who have been making my mornings lately so filled with laughter. With laughter comes JOY. THANK YOU, ladies for that gift!!
My day begins with me making my way into the kitchen so I can switch on my coffee pot that magically grinds the beans for a fresh cup of home brewed java. (Thanks again to my daughter and wonderful son-in-law for that gift 3 years ago, when I wasn’t expecting anything.)
As there is no one around, most mornings, except for my large dog Max, who loudly snarls to warn me not to eat his food (I call him Cujo when he does that), I look for company by sitting at my computer and checking email, Facebook, BlogHer, and news sites, amongst other places I usually peruse.
My BlogHer reads are the very best. I get updates on what is going on with my friends, followers and followwees. Maybe because I am getting to know people and connect regularly with some co-bloggers, reading their posts is making them more than just a remote name for me. They are real people and I like them a lot. I view their posts to get an update into what is happening to women I have begun to care about. For example, I know who is moving, who slept, who didn’t, who agonized, whose kids are ill, who is ticked, who is resolved, who cooked and who is preparing her spring garden. It seems though, that through it all, everyone I read regularly has found a place in her life drama for humor. This week, for example, at least 3 times, I almost blew coffee out of my nose laughing at the funny commentaries (sorry for the visual). But I was surprised by the humor imbedded into some topics that were really quite serious. What a healthy thing to do.
"I am thankful for laughter, except when milk comes out of my nose." Woody Allen
Laughter is contagious. From beinggirl.com: "A wise man once said, "Laughter is the best medicine," and he was right. When you're happy and laughing, it's contagious, so don't be afraid of showing off your sense of humor.”
"Laughter is the most healthful exertion." Christoph Wilhelm Hufeland
Yep, laughter is so good for us. According to a video on WebMD titled, Laughter Can Improve Your Health, compiled by Damon Meharg: “It helps reduce stress hormones, like cortisol and adrenalin, and pumps up immune system activity by increasing interferon, T cells and white blood cells. A hearty guffaw or belly laugh can also boost heart rate, improves blood flow, and stabilizes blood pressure.”
Now if that doesn’t make you want to belly laugh it up, there is more:
“In study after study, findings on this most cherished of human traits are giving us all something to smile about: Diabetic patients saw their blood sugar levels rise less after eating a meal at a comedy show; laughing improves digestion and speeds up respiration and blood circulation; in fact, laughing 100 or more times a day may have the same health benefits as 10 minutes of aerobic exercise!”
"What soap is to the body, laughter is to the soul." Yiddish Proverb
Please know that you don’t have to make me laugh every time I read your posts, as I am not expecting a daily Vegas comedy shtick. The point is that I have gotten so much out of sharing experiences and learning from all of you. Whether there is humor, drama, sadness despair or whatever I will visit you every day that I am able in order to keep in touch and support you when I can.
This post is to thank you again for all that you have brought to my life and for the JOY that reigns when we laugh together.
"My great hope is to laugh as much as I cry; to get my work done and try to love somebody and have the courage to accept the love in return." Mayo Angelou
My day begins with me making my way into the kitchen so I can switch on my coffee pot that magically grinds the beans for a fresh cup of home brewed java. (Thanks again to my daughter and wonderful son-in-law for that gift 3 years ago, when I wasn’t expecting anything.)
As there is no one around, most mornings, except for my large dog Max, who loudly snarls to warn me not to eat his food (I call him Cujo when he does that), I look for company by sitting at my computer and checking email, Facebook, BlogHer, and news sites, amongst other places I usually peruse.
My BlogHer reads are the very best. I get updates on what is going on with my friends, followers and followwees. Maybe because I am getting to know people and connect regularly with some co-bloggers, reading their posts is making them more than just a remote name for me. They are real people and I like them a lot. I view their posts to get an update into what is happening to women I have begun to care about. For example, I know who is moving, who slept, who didn’t, who agonized, whose kids are ill, who is ticked, who is resolved, who cooked and who is preparing her spring garden. It seems though, that through it all, everyone I read regularly has found a place in her life drama for humor. This week, for example, at least 3 times, I almost blew coffee out of my nose laughing at the funny commentaries (sorry for the visual). But I was surprised by the humor imbedded into some topics that were really quite serious. What a healthy thing to do.
"I am thankful for laughter, except when milk comes out of my nose." Woody Allen
Laughter is contagious. From beinggirl.com: "A wise man once said, "Laughter is the best medicine," and he was right. When you're happy and laughing, it's contagious, so don't be afraid of showing off your sense of humor.”
"Laughter is the most healthful exertion." Christoph Wilhelm Hufeland
Yep, laughter is so good for us. According to a video on WebMD titled, Laughter Can Improve Your Health, compiled by Damon Meharg: “It helps reduce stress hormones, like cortisol and adrenalin, and pumps up immune system activity by increasing interferon, T cells and white blood cells. A hearty guffaw or belly laugh can also boost heart rate, improves blood flow, and stabilizes blood pressure.”
Now if that doesn’t make you want to belly laugh it up, there is more:
“In study after study, findings on this most cherished of human traits are giving us all something to smile about: Diabetic patients saw their blood sugar levels rise less after eating a meal at a comedy show; laughing improves digestion and speeds up respiration and blood circulation; in fact, laughing 100 or more times a day may have the same health benefits as 10 minutes of aerobic exercise!”
"What soap is to the body, laughter is to the soul." Yiddish Proverb
Please know that you don’t have to make me laugh every time I read your posts, as I am not expecting a daily Vegas comedy shtick. The point is that I have gotten so much out of sharing experiences and learning from all of you. Whether there is humor, drama, sadness despair or whatever I will visit you every day that I am able in order to keep in touch and support you when I can.
This post is to thank you again for all that you have brought to my life and for the JOY that reigns when we laugh together.
"My great hope is to laugh as much as I cry; to get my work done and try to love somebody and have the courage to accept the love in return." Mayo Angelou
Monday, January 23, 2012
"A good laugh and a long sleep are the best cures in the doctor's book." ~Irish Proverb
There has been a lot written lately about sleep or the lack of it more specifically. Most of what I have read on blog postings center around hilarious middle-of-the-night wake-ups because of ill or restless children. My theory is that sleeplessness results in an awakening of some inner sense of humor that serves as the coping mechanism for the inability to sleep while kids need attention. While I totally enjoy the read, there is nothing funny the underlying reason. Also, I have read about teens who actually need more than 8 hours of sleep but seem to get far less. So, when they say they I can’t get out of bed for school because they are too tired, they probably are. Lastly, how much sleep does a woman over the age of 70 years really need and what kind of games is her body playing on her that makes her awaken after a few hours. I went searching for some answers.
To get the info for this post, of course I went to the National Sleep Foundation’s website. They describe themselves this way: “The National Sleep Foundation is a 501(c)3 charitable, educational, and scientific not-for-profit organization dedicated to improving sleep health and safety through education, public awareness, and advocacy.” Additionally, I went to the National Institute of Health (NIH) content on sleep and beinggirl.com, as there are several research-based articles there that focus on teens and their sleep needs (see links to the sites below).
Here are some facts that I learned about sleeping. Some you may know and others that are kind of surprising:
Sleeping is NOT a passive sport. Sleeping is as important to our well-being as eating. Animals need sleep to survive. It impacts our nerve-signaling chemicals or neurotransmitters, and impacts our psychological and physical health, as well as how we metabolize food.
“Fatigue is the best pillow.” (Benjamin Franklin) There is NO one amount of sleep that everyone needs. Each person is different, so no matter how old or young, each individual has his/her own sleep needs. For example, I have a colleague who requires very little sleep. While up at 2:00 a.m., she isn’t watching cooking shows or reruns of Sex in the City, she works and creates. As a result, I used to get emails from her timed at all kinds of sleeping hours. When awake, she always seemed chipper and energetic. Not me, if I was awake at 2:00 a.m. I would watch Kitchen Bitches or Two Fat Ladies and, if really fortunate, reruns of Andy Griffin and then be one fat bitch in the morning.
The majority of teens don’t get enough sleep. “Teens need about 9 1/4 hours of sleep each night to function best (for some, 8 1/2 hours is enough). Most teens do not get enough sleep — one study found that only 15% reported sleeping 8 1/2 hours on school nights.” Another issue with teens is that their sleep patterns are irregular as their weekend patterns usually differ from school days and their school sleeping patterns differ depending on what is going on. For example, less sleep may happen when studying for a test or participating in sports that require early practice. As a result, it impacts their ability to concentrate, remember things and listen. Not ideal when education is the key part of their life.
Consequences of not getting enough sleep are real and can result in physical or psychological issues. Not getting enough sleep can result in acne or other skin problems in teens. It can also lead to aggressive or other inappropriate behaviors. Importantly, no matter the age, people who don’t get enough sleep are heavier than those that do. That may be because they are eating high fat food and too much of it and not metabolizing it well. Also, not getting enough sleep can lead to driving accidents, as well as accidents because equipment is not being used safely.
Sleep Needs DON’T decline with age. While aging doesn’t decrease the amount of sleep needed, aging messes up our sleep habits. GREAT! So while older adults are awakening more throughout the night and taking longer to fall asleep, they are also suffering more from sleep apnea and from a decline in their important REM (rapid eye movement) sleep. The Mayo Clinic defines sleep apnea as: a potentially serious sleep disorder in which breathing repeatedly stops and starts. Everyone needs a certain period of time for REM sleep in order to have a complete sleep cycle. Altering that alters ones sleep pattern negatively. Some causes of sleep problems in adults are: GERD, due to the pain of esophageal reflux; restless leg syndrome; too much caffeine, and the urge to urinate.
What to do… What to do….
First, let’s look at how much sleep we need a night: According the NIH, “infants generally require about 16 hours a day, while teenagers need about 9 hours on average. For most adults, 7 to 8 hours a night appears to be the best amount of sleep, although some people may need as few as 5 hours or as many as 10 hours of sleep each day. Women in the first 3 months of pregnancy often need several more hours of sleep than usual.”
The RELAXation Method for falling asleep:
Say to yourself, you are getting sleep, you are getting sleepy…(only kidding). Actually, beinggirl recommends the following:
When you get to bed, close your eyes and get comfy. Focus your attention on the parts of your body that feel uncomfortable. Take a deep breath, and as you breathe out, focus on relaxing each of those areas, one at a time. Take two deep breaths for every body part that you relax. Continue this deep and relaxed breathing. Deep breathing should help you sleep better.
Once your body is relaxed, clear your mind by focusing on pictures of numbers or letters. For example, picture the number 30 in your mind. Imagine that the number 30 is getting blown away by the wind, erased by a pencil eraser, or fades into invisibility. Then picture the number 29 appearing in a different color, size, shape, and handwriting than the number 30. Once you have the image in your mind, imagine the 29 getting erased in a different way. Continue picturing each number with lots of details, and imagining each one disappears until you get to the number 1. If you don't fall asleep before you get to the number 1, your mind will be free of stressful thoughts and you will be able to sleep better.
Tips to Help Improve Your Sleep Patterns
Do you get a good sleep at night?? If so, any other tips to offer??
http://www.beinggirl.com/article/sleep-better/?utm_source=blogger&utm_medium=nurseplummer&utm_content=link20120123&utm_campaign=comm_mgr
http://www.ninds.nih.gov/disorders/brain_basics/understanding_sleep.htm
http://www.sleepfoundation.org/
To get the info for this post, of course I went to the National Sleep Foundation’s website. They describe themselves this way: “The National Sleep Foundation is a 501(c)3 charitable, educational, and scientific not-for-profit organization dedicated to improving sleep health and safety through education, public awareness, and advocacy.” Additionally, I went to the National Institute of Health (NIH) content on sleep and beinggirl.com, as there are several research-based articles there that focus on teens and their sleep needs (see links to the sites below).
Here are some facts that I learned about sleeping. Some you may know and others that are kind of surprising:
Sleeping is NOT a passive sport. Sleeping is as important to our well-being as eating. Animals need sleep to survive. It impacts our nerve-signaling chemicals or neurotransmitters, and impacts our psychological and physical health, as well as how we metabolize food.
“Fatigue is the best pillow.” (Benjamin Franklin) There is NO one amount of sleep that everyone needs. Each person is different, so no matter how old or young, each individual has his/her own sleep needs. For example, I have a colleague who requires very little sleep. While up at 2:00 a.m., she isn’t watching cooking shows or reruns of Sex in the City, she works and creates. As a result, I used to get emails from her timed at all kinds of sleeping hours. When awake, she always seemed chipper and energetic. Not me, if I was awake at 2:00 a.m. I would watch Kitchen Bitches or Two Fat Ladies and, if really fortunate, reruns of Andy Griffin and then be one fat bitch in the morning.
The majority of teens don’t get enough sleep. “Teens need about 9 1/4 hours of sleep each night to function best (for some, 8 1/2 hours is enough). Most teens do not get enough sleep — one study found that only 15% reported sleeping 8 1/2 hours on school nights.” Another issue with teens is that their sleep patterns are irregular as their weekend patterns usually differ from school days and their school sleeping patterns differ depending on what is going on. For example, less sleep may happen when studying for a test or participating in sports that require early practice. As a result, it impacts their ability to concentrate, remember things and listen. Not ideal when education is the key part of their life.
Consequences of not getting enough sleep are real and can result in physical or psychological issues. Not getting enough sleep can result in acne or other skin problems in teens. It can also lead to aggressive or other inappropriate behaviors. Importantly, no matter the age, people who don’t get enough sleep are heavier than those that do. That may be because they are eating high fat food and too much of it and not metabolizing it well. Also, not getting enough sleep can lead to driving accidents, as well as accidents because equipment is not being used safely.
Sleep Needs DON’T decline with age. While aging doesn’t decrease the amount of sleep needed, aging messes up our sleep habits. GREAT! So while older adults are awakening more throughout the night and taking longer to fall asleep, they are also suffering more from sleep apnea and from a decline in their important REM (rapid eye movement) sleep. The Mayo Clinic defines sleep apnea as: a potentially serious sleep disorder in which breathing repeatedly stops and starts. Everyone needs a certain period of time for REM sleep in order to have a complete sleep cycle. Altering that alters ones sleep pattern negatively. Some causes of sleep problems in adults are: GERD, due to the pain of esophageal reflux; restless leg syndrome; too much caffeine, and the urge to urinate.
What to do… What to do….
First, let’s look at how much sleep we need a night: According the NIH, “infants generally require about 16 hours a day, while teenagers need about 9 hours on average. For most adults, 7 to 8 hours a night appears to be the best amount of sleep, although some people may need as few as 5 hours or as many as 10 hours of sleep each day. Women in the first 3 months of pregnancy often need several more hours of sleep than usual.”
The RELAXation Method for falling asleep:
Say to yourself, you are getting sleep, you are getting sleepy…(only kidding). Actually, beinggirl recommends the following:
When you get to bed, close your eyes and get comfy. Focus your attention on the parts of your body that feel uncomfortable. Take a deep breath, and as you breathe out, focus on relaxing each of those areas, one at a time. Take two deep breaths for every body part that you relax. Continue this deep and relaxed breathing. Deep breathing should help you sleep better.
Once your body is relaxed, clear your mind by focusing on pictures of numbers or letters. For example, picture the number 30 in your mind. Imagine that the number 30 is getting blown away by the wind, erased by a pencil eraser, or fades into invisibility. Then picture the number 29 appearing in a different color, size, shape, and handwriting than the number 30. Once you have the image in your mind, imagine the 29 getting erased in a different way. Continue picturing each number with lots of details, and imagining each one disappears until you get to the number 1. If you don't fall asleep before you get to the number 1, your mind will be free of stressful thoughts and you will be able to sleep better.
Tips to Help Improve Your Sleep Patterns
- Eat earlier and lighter.
- Take a short walk after a late meal or a very active evening to help you unwind
- Train your mind: Keep to a regular sleep schedule, going to sleep at the same time every night, and waking up at the same time every day. Get at least 8 hours of sleep a night and 8–10 hours of sleep if you are a teen and can. After a few weeks, you will start feeling sleepy at bedtime, and will awake ready to go before your alarm clock.
- No matter what is going on in the rest of your house, create a tranquil, comforting environment in your bedroom. Turn on some soothing sounds and spray your sheets and room with lavender. If you need it totally dark to get your proper rest, try a sleep mask or scented eye pillow.
- Indulging in relaxing activities before bedtime can help too. Take a warm (not hot) bath or listen to soothing music. Some people fall asleep reading.
- Keeping temperatures above 74 or below 54 degrees Fahrenheit can impact sleep. Everyone is different, but most scientists agree that sleeping in a cooler room is better for sleep and a hot room can disrupt sleep patterns.
- Light and dark influence when we get sleepy, think night and day. Bright light can keep you awake so turn them down!!
- Give yourself enough space to sleep. If you are sleeping with someone, make sure you have enough room to move around and not wake the other person – or be woken up yourself due to someone else’s restlessness.
Do you get a good sleep at night?? If so, any other tips to offer??
http://www.beinggirl.com/article/sleep-better/?utm_source=blogger&utm_medium=nurseplummer&utm_content=link20120123&utm_campaign=comm_mgr
http://www.ninds.nih.gov/disorders/brain_basics/understanding_sleep.htm
http://www.sleepfoundation.org/
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